I am changing my mind on what I would recommend for you.
Based on the quote above, I would say Tibhar Evolution FX-P should be really great for your backhand. Really spinny, grabs the ball really well, yet, somehow, not very responsive to incoming spin. Another unique thing about FX-P, it is soft and has very good catapult, but it is not really bouncy. So soft-touch shots will have great touch but the catapult of the rubber will kick in with the bigger impact of the power shots.
At first I thought you needed something more toned down. But if you can handle the grip and spin of Omega IV Europe and feel it is just a bit too bouncy, the FX-P should be really good for you. EL-P may be okay. But it is medium not soft. And MX-P is just too hard for many people's backhands because it is pretty hard. I have it on my backhand and it took me a few weeks to feel out the he correct depth of impact for a rubber that hard on my backhand. Whereas, it felt perfect for my forehand instantly.
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