Backhand and forehand rubber recommendations for 1.5 year beginner

[UpSideDownCarl]

seriously, i'd like the last word, so just don't reply ok?

You are trying to be funny. But since I am cleaning up the mess, you can get the last reply if your last reply is SORRY. Otherwise, I get the last response.

 

[cerebro]

i've already apologised for anyone getting duped by a newb bumping an old thread, the rest of my posts have been attempts to both clarify that i see this situation from others perspective and an attempt to allow, mostly just you, to see my perspective, but that seems impossible.
i was genuinely trying to add meaningful content to decent threads, but i cop an endless torrent of criticism....well so be it.
I'm not fussed Carl, you want to defend someone who trolls a newb, you want to force a newb into submission, those are your choices, i have no say here.

 

[cerebro]

What is this, Reddit now?

yeah, that was just a joke.
But i am sorry that you get to read drama instead of pingpong news etc

 

[UpSideDownCarl]

i've already apologised for anyone getting duped by a newb bumping an old thread, the rest of my posts have been attempts to both clarify that i see this situation from others perspective and an attempt to allow, mostly just you, to see my perspective, but that seems impossible.
i was genuinely trying to add meaningful content to decent threads, but i cop an endless torrent of criticism....well so be it.
I'm not fussed Carl, you want to defend someone who trolls a newb, you want to force a newb into submission, those are your choices, i have no say here.

The funny thing is, I had a chat with Suga D and he instantly just said. Sorry. I overreacted.

With each of your answers to me, I am not seeing you adding meaningful content. And I am not seeing you recognize how you are continuing problematic behavior. But I am taking note of all of it.

You did apologize for something. But, it seems like some of the problematic behavior is continuing.

 

[Suga D]

Actually i felt i should keep staying out of this, but since Carl has had so much extra work that is absolutely not needed IMO I will try to help deescalate this, as my comment towards Ingo (who is pretty new here as well) has obviously caused all of this.

I am really sorry for that and have learned my lesson.
Next time i will just report without any comment of mine that can be misunderstood and leave it up to the mods taking care of things.

Thanks Carl for playing the lightning conductor and taking all this 'thunder' that rather should to be addressed towards me.

Now that shall be my last words on this topic. Too much time is spent with all this already.
Rather spend it with something nice, life's too short.

 

[cerebro]

Is this how this forum rolls?

Oh, so Sugar D apologized, that's great. I wish that was passed on.
If you, Carl, posted something like this here
You are new, you did nothing wrong, poster apologized.
This would have been buried immediately.
But instead you have shown no empathy and used the opportunity to point the finger at me.
That is what I will never allow. I will not be subject to bullying for no reason. I KNOW I did nothing wrong, yet you still want me to bow down.
And SugaD, perhaps you felt that a pm apology to a mod was good enough, but a pm or public apology would have meant a lot to me. I've had a hard time reconciling this conflict and a little kindness goes a long way, but no hard feelings.

 

[UpSideDownCarl]

Oh, so Sugar D apologized, that's great. I wish that was passed on.
If you, Carl, posted something like this here
You are new, you did nothing wrong, poster apologized.
This would have been buried immediately.
But instead you have shown no empathy and used the opportunity to point the finger at me.
That is what I will never allow. I will not be subject to bullying for no reason. I KNOW I did nothing wrong, yet you still want me to bow down.
And SugaD, perhaps you felt that a pm apology to a mod was good enough, but a pm or public apology would have meant a lot to me. I've had a hard time reconciling this conflict and a little kindness goes a long way, but no hard feelings.

It seems to me you don't know how to behave on a public forum. It seems to me, you are telling me how I should handle this. You want me to tell you you have done nothing wrong. The initial thing you did seems like it may have been a mistake. Something you did without meaning to cause a problem. Everything after I walked in to try and clean things up, well, all of that was problematic.

So, I am sorry to do this. But, I am not sure you actually should be on the forum. At some point, I will send you an email. Maybe we will see if we can sort out you coming back on the forum. But....I have grown weary of your childish behavior. As of now, you are ghost.

 

[Der_Echte]

Looks like dude got volun-told to drink a cup of long-lasting STFU. Looks like he worked long and hard for that drink.