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Nice. You describe a nice environment at a friendly club.The thing is I know them for a long time. They are quite older than me ~55-75+ and the ones on my team are around ~57(the one I talked to and like the most on the team. You can hear him in the videos vs Günter for example how he is supporting me from the side ~1200RC)
the other member who I like also (who gave me Harimoto SZLC + D09c ~2weeks played for FREE + he has ) and also supports me in my games and picks me up to drive me to our league games (he is my neighbour too but still doesn't bother to pick the others up who live further away ~15min) ~1200RC
The 3rd Member is a couple years older than me but he seems to care more about his trainingsessions with the kids more than his own training (we probably trained like twice or so in the last 4-5months) he has around 1470RC
He is ok to talk to but we are not so close and he is a bit distant.
When I switch the teams I already know they won't be that supportive as much as my current team. I will have to drive on my own. I am also not sure if they train much.
And as you said I was frustrated when the other youth player left(sure the club got like 700€ for the loan year so it was worth for them but they didn't talk with me about that decision or what my goals were. Because I really wanted to play for promotion again which would have been easy with him) (we had 2 youth player and rotated as 4 man in the Landesliga since only 3 can play) and after that season we got demoted due to new rules (league being seized down from 12 Teams to 10) and we were 3rd last place.. One left to study to vienna the other wanted to play one more season in the Landesliga in a different club before he goes studying himself but its april and he is still unsure what he wants to do.. Anyway because he didn't come to train with us except once we also lost a good player to train with.
There are technically 2 Teams I could ask to join. Maybe more but I don't favor them so much. I don't know it seems hard to go from a supportive team to an unknown team that are more individuals than a "team" atleast from an outside perspective.
Sorry I wrote it a bit messy this time. Just puked my thoughts straight out of the brain.
I will just talk with my current team and then start talking with other clubs. I think thats better than the other way around. Because I really feel like I can reach higher. And for that I need better opponents and better trainingspartner.
TLDR: Talking with my own club first and then will go and contact the other player from the other club to train a session with me and then talk about joining his club if I enjoyed practising with him otherwise there is another club I will go and ask if I can play in their 2nd team (they have 2 teams in the Landesliga - only downside they are 30min further away but their hall will get destroyed so they might need to play away always not sure where they would train then.. thats why I am shifting towards the other club which is also a bit closer)
Play league for the club that will improve you and still train with your current club sometimes?
I remember on our football team (over 20 yrs ago) we had a very good player.
He left us to play for a team in a higher division, to test himself at that level and see how far he could go. I wished him well and used to contact him occasionally to see how it was going but I remember being surprised by players on our team who sneerered and sniped behind his back, oh he thinks he's too good for us bla bla bla etc etc.
It was unexpected but also taught me immediately that I didn't really know these players and they weren't worth my time, outside of the team.
Other players had my view and that was great because I knew then who was jealous and bitter and who was happy to see a good guy have a go at something he wanted to do for himself.
Bottom line in all of this story is, anyone who doesn't wish you well isn't really a friend.
On the other side there is of course deciding what you prefer.
But in choosing to stay you might need to reconcile yourself with probable stagnation because if not you will be complaining again about not improving and risk resenting your current club in some ways, but it won't be their fault.
That player returned to play with us the following season cos the bigger club wanted him to train 3 nights a week and be available for 2 matches at the wknd etc etc but which was too much.
So back he came and all was forgiven, even those who had been 2 faced knobs were happy to be playing with him agaim as he improved our team.
End result, he was happy he tried, nothing ventured nothing gained so to speak. He had scratched the itch and now knew what was best for him.
And around him, what he was oblivious to was that I and others learned a shitload about our supposed "teammates", how selfish and uncaring they were, was good to know who to keep at arms length.
No harm was done anywhere and that was that 🤷♂️