I like the weight balance low (in the handle). I think the weight balance is the most important issue. I think my setup is about 190g total and since the weight is mid, not low, not high, it is a fine weight. If the weight was lower (more in the handle) the blade would feel lighter and more whippy with the same overall weight. With the weight higher (more head heavy) the blade would feel heavier and play like a heavier setup.
I would like my setup more if the weight was more in the handle. But it is fine for me.
I also do feel TT players get a little too fussy with this kind of thing. A TT ball is light....very light. You don't need much impact to make it go. A TT racket, even at 210 grams is still very light. You do swing it over and over. But, when I was 12 years old, playing baseball, I was using a 32-34 inch bat (81-86cm) that weighed somewhere in the area of 2-2.5 lbs (910-1130g). You swing it, you get used to it. Before getting up to bat, you put a 1.5 pound doughnut (680g) on the end of the bat and when you get up to the plate, the bat feels light.
Most of this stuff is about perception unless you have someone with a wrist or elbow injury.
One time Der_Echte handed me a racket where the blade weighed 120g and it was quite handle heavy. The total setup was notably over 200g. Because a lot of the weight was in the handle (he had modified the handle to add about 35g to the handle) the blade felt light and very whippy.
