TareqPhoto,
You are like many smart people out there - you have dealt with many people who do not know what they are talking about, so you want to understand yourself, so you are doing your research. The problem is that some things in life are too complicated to research unless you have the right background. And at some point, you have to trust or listen to one expert and when you learn certain things and see how effective what that expert said was, you can use what you learn to evaluate other things.
Everyone has told you that
1) at the level you have described yourself at, it is better to get a control set up than an offensive set up.
2) at some point, it is likely that you will buy another set up, therefore, if you really want to play, don't waste your time choosing a perfect setup
3) the game is mostly about skills, not set up,
4) faster setups make it harder for you to learn skills because the faster setup encourages you to take shots that are not going to improve your game, while discouraging the shots that you need to improve your game.
All of us responding to you, have at one point or another, have spent a lot of time and money buying equipment. All of us have learned that training is more important than equipment. All of us have learned that very fast equipment is good for some things and bad for some things, and the things it is good for are not things that beginners should do. Like it or not, you are a beginner. I played table tennis without coaching on and off for about give or take 15 years of my life with gaps and breaks. I could beat most people who had never entered a table tennis club before very easily. But when I started playing tournament table tennis, I was being beaten by kids under 10 years old (who weren't that good, by the way) because they knew a few tricks I didn't know. With 4 months of coaching, I became as good as those kids (who had improved BTW), and 1 year later, those kids were not in my class anymore because I was much better than they were.
Even very, very, very smart people often do not understand table tennis, not because they don't get the logic or the physics, but because there are things you need to experience to fully appreciate how complex this sport is. The time you have spent deciding what to you use will not make you a better player. Equipment does not make you a better player. Training is what makes you a better player. Equipment can only help or hinder your ability to play the way you want to play but without understanding what is possible (which is easiest to understand with a control setup), you will make bad decisions on how to play if you use offensive equipment that is too fast for your level of experience (unless you get coaching, in which case, let the coach decide what you should use as he will determine your style in the short term).
Let me give you an example of how complicated this game is. My brother, who is younger and smarter than myself, saw me play after a year and a half of coaching (I was about USATT 1500 at this time) and felt that I was playing worse than I did when I was younger. Of course, from a physical and movement standpoint, he may have been right, but from a stand point of technique and spin generation, he had no clue what he was talking about because he doesn't play or understand the sport.
My impression is that you really don't enjoy this game. You have not participated in any other threads or discussions other than the ones related your equipment. That's not a big deal, but you have spent so long on this without discussing your actual playing experience that you actually do not play that much. You probably want to beat someone who laughed at you, but believe me, equipment will not help you do that. I can beat most people who have never seen the inside of a club playing with a book or a cell phone or even a plank of wood (and even some who have).
IF you buy something, you will probably use it to impress your friends or to show people that since you play with Butterfly, you are a serious player. But actually play, not so much. People who want to play get something to play with, play a lot and talk about how they play.