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Whatever you said is true , but the scene here is a little different , adding to the cut throat scenario that Der described above, any and every coach charges 50 dollars and above , till about 80-90 dollars depending on their credentials , most of the clubs here are somehow tied to ethnicity :
So you have a
1. Vietnamese club -> More adult players but you need to know their language or be shamelessly thick skinned to even penetrate the social circle ( which I was at one point )
2. A couple of Indian clubs -> purely focussed on cut throat youth programs , unless you are putting big donations or know the kingpin(s) mediocre adult players are not warmly welcomed
3. A few Chinese clubs -> Again huge language barier , very well knit groups which would not want to welcome a non asian player in their mix unless you are 2200 or more ...
So here are a few scenarios , during my journey from a <1000 rated player to around 1600-1800
< 1000 : You enter a club , nobody wants to play you. You get poached by a pretender coach who shows you pictures of how he trained Ariel / Lily etc and then waste 3 months and hundreds of dollars of your money to realize that its going down the drain ...
now this is the twilight zone , you either have to decide to chuck it or keep sticking to it , then you break in the first social barier where the comparatively weaker players want to play you , once you start beating them , the next layer has a weird reaction , they might want to drill with you if you are good enough but not play you because their prestige will be hurt if you beat them and then they will start making excuses to not playing you at all
so .. you keep putting the money in for good coaches to get whatever pearls of wisdom you can get and make the most of your playing time with them ( max you could afford is probably 2 sessions a week of one hour which would cost you 160 dollars to 180 dollars a week + league money + club membership )
3. Now you are slowly inching to 1600-1800 : You know a few people , a few good guys who are out side all of this and then you say what the heck , I cannot put more money down the drain I will just keep playing socially with people who are nice and fairly competitive to play with ... instead of putting up with all the weird shyt .. its only a game ... that is exactly where I am ...
There is another way to improve and that is to keep floating from club to club and paying money for their leagues and memberships so that you are able to find out whatever outliers you can and keep improving ...
I know what to do to improve my game, but I cannot find practice partners who are willing to put in the time , effort and understanding to form a team to keep improving . I don't have the energy or time to keep breaking into these circles of trust or whatever they are ... and believe me I have successfully breached a couple of them ...
Now tell me , what do you make of california table tennis , yes we will produce Ariel Hsings and Lily Wangs whose parents and sponsors are willing to fork out millions but we won't be able to create a nice socially active atmosphere where table tennis knowledge is shared and adults can come into the game and improve with advise without wasting significant money ...
So you have a
1. Vietnamese club -> More adult players but you need to know their language or be shamelessly thick skinned to even penetrate the social circle ( which I was at one point )
2. A couple of Indian clubs -> purely focussed on cut throat youth programs , unless you are putting big donations or know the kingpin(s) mediocre adult players are not warmly welcomed
3. A few Chinese clubs -> Again huge language barier , very well knit groups which would not want to welcome a non asian player in their mix unless you are 2200 or more ...
So here are a few scenarios , during my journey from a <1000 rated player to around 1600-1800
< 1000 : You enter a club , nobody wants to play you. You get poached by a pretender coach who shows you pictures of how he trained Ariel / Lily etc and then waste 3 months and hundreds of dollars of your money to realize that its going down the drain ...
now this is the twilight zone , you either have to decide to chuck it or keep sticking to it , then you break in the first social barier where the comparatively weaker players want to play you , once you start beating them , the next layer has a weird reaction , they might want to drill with you if you are good enough but not play you because their prestige will be hurt if you beat them and then they will start making excuses to not playing you at all
so .. you keep putting the money in for good coaches to get whatever pearls of wisdom you can get and make the most of your playing time with them ( max you could afford is probably 2 sessions a week of one hour which would cost you 160 dollars to 180 dollars a week + league money + club membership )
3. Now you are slowly inching to 1600-1800 : You know a few people , a few good guys who are out side all of this and then you say what the heck , I cannot put more money down the drain I will just keep playing socially with people who are nice and fairly competitive to play with ... instead of putting up with all the weird shyt .. its only a game ... that is exactly where I am ...
There is another way to improve and that is to keep floating from club to club and paying money for their leagues and memberships so that you are able to find out whatever outliers you can and keep improving ...
I know what to do to improve my game, but I cannot find practice partners who are willing to put in the time , effort and understanding to form a team to keep improving . I don't have the energy or time to keep breaking into these circles of trust or whatever they are ... and believe me I have successfully breached a couple of them ...
Now tell me , what do you make of california table tennis , yes we will produce Ariel Hsings and Lily Wangs whose parents and sponsors are willing to fork out millions but we won't be able to create a nice socially active atmosphere where table tennis knowledge is shared and adults can come into the game and improve with advise without wasting significant money ...
This little snippet caught my attention...
As one of the top level players in my area, with several players that are over the equivalent of 2000 USATT, I can confirm that in our case the top players do tend to congregate together in their own private hangouts, so as to avoid constant requests from weaker players for "just a quick game...". Most of the guys are quite good about hitting with low level players in general, but sometimes the top guys would actually like to play and train with each other for a while, and get some work of our own done. So we arrange to go to a specific club instead of the main centre in the area.
Another interesting point is that where I am from it is actually quite easy to get the top guys to spill the beans, all of my colleagues are willing to discuss technique and tactics with lower level guys. But what I've seen consistently over my 30 or so years in the sport is that very, very few of these lower level players actually listen to what the top guys say and then even fewer actually go out and try to implement the advice for the next few months.
In general, lower level players talking to high level players seem to fall into a few categories:
1) They want to explain to the the top guys their excuses for not doing things properly, as if the top guy can give them permission to keep doing it incorrectly.
2) They want to argue that their way is better than the top guys suggestions.
3) They want to learn to do things that are way beyond their capability.
and one that I get a lot as a long pips player;
4) They want to get tips on how to play better with their long pips, but insist on trying to do things with their long pips that the pips are not designed to do well, and then want to inform me on a regular basis that they are still struggling with their long pips. Go figure!![]()
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