i had a singles and doubles competition yesterday.
due to the lack of time the singles competition only used the best of three format, so winning to games would be enough to win.
we had 4 groups with 5 people each. I won every game bar the one where i thought "i already played this guy and he isnt that good". Indeed that very guy that i finally lost to was actually winning the group (which is ridiculous tbh). I think i won the first set with 11-3 or something and then my mind went into the mode "hey, i can try new stuff out now and probably win anyways", which led to the situation where he was leading 10-5 against me in the second set. I managed to come close, but he beat me 13-11 in the end. Suffice to say i could not get my mind back into the winning habbit of the first set and lost the 3rd game close.
This was a very good lesson in the need to be more humble and fight every point, because i basically "f*ed around and found out"

after the group phase of the singles i went into the doubles competition with groups of three, whereby only the first of each group would proceed plus the best 2nd placed. I told my team mate "hey, we will win this group, every other team in our group has one player in it that is not that experienced". Totally forgetting about the lesson of the singles phase being too cocky and what happend ? we lost to the first team we played against with 1-2 sets (best of three again) and beat the next team 2-0. That was obviously not good enough to proceed. We already packed our bags and where ready to leave, when the organizing staff came to us and told us to wait, because we could still proceed as best second placed. we just had to wait for the other groups to finish so they could calculate who was the best second placed team. Luckily it was us, so we proceeded to the knockout phase. It was already the semi final (with only 4 teams proceeding from the group phase), so we had only two games to go. Lucky the first opponent in the semi final was a quite good team and my team mate knew one of the opponents very well. I would even say that this was the best player in that doubles competation. This lead us to know that only pushing securly to our win would not be possible, so we had to attack. Which was good in the end, because putting them under pressure made the second opponent crumble more often and we managed to win it. In the final we were even more attacking and finally won that competation.
take away of this day for me is:
- every match has to be played and fought seriously, no matter the prior set results
- using the mindset to safely push yourself to the win against weaker opponents is not a good strategy.
the last point is a two edged sword though. While it was working fine in the singles competation simply returning the ball until the opponent got impatient and tried to finish a ball that was not easy to finish, in the doubles competation it simply gimped our chances.
i hope i can take away the right lessons in terms of mentality from this experience.