I actually haven't bought any gear in 6 months. Haven't seen anything new or interesting. I took about 4 months away from TT and just starting to get back into playing a bit. After beating the 2150 LP Chopper guy, I felt like I had achieved much more than I ever imagined when I started playing in 2022. After that I lost motivation and stopped playing.
Ejing doesn't mean, buying a lot
it means you keep changing
and it also means, in your head, you keep changing your mind (maybe you not changing physically, but mentally too). In other words, if it works or fails, it isn't you but your gear. this is the cons of ejing.
Getting a coach,
because it is simple to list everything in point form, but how is the execution? how is the training partners level.
of course, there is hobby method, using google/chat gpt/ttd and youtube to get by free of charge progress.
but you get what you pay for.
or if you are serious, get a specialist and focus on technical adjustments. you may need to unlearn things to be able to move forward. In fact, this is mostly the case.
Regardless, I know my body and I know what I can do and can't do.
Really?
This is the biggest problem with self learning.
If you haven't achieved that extra mile, you will not know how far extra you can push your body and you would claim, you can't do. But the problem is, you don't know how to do, not "can't do", or simply you don't know how to do it.
Most of the time, I work with players, the conclusion afterwards, I would always say: See, you know how to do it now right? now focus on it, remind yourself every time that you can do it.
There is no "can't"
I worked with Para TT players who have movement disabilities and they also can push can't to can!
It has nothing to do with the gear. Actually a lot of times I like to train with worse or more demanding gear. It kinda acts like a extra weight and forces you to hit cleaner and better shots to overcome. Recently I have been training with the very cheap Sanwei Gears 2.0 (I actually find it much better than the more marketed and expensive Gears Hyper)
I know gear is difficult to understand. especially for ejers.
you can say all the pros of ejers, but I am a pro of coaching.
no sane serious player are regular ejers.
we find time (no competition periods) to test out new or different gear, and we decide what to do next and we stick with it and master it.
it is no use being an expert on every gear, but master of none.
There is so much going on in table tennis, that from 1900 to 2100, requires to be more complete. A better flow, if we can call it such.
And as I commented on your training videos before, your training partners level is only so much - thus your quality of training is only so much.