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We've already agreed that being a reasonably high level table tennis player is required for what we are discussing - we are discussing what differentiates popularity among good table tennis players. The players in the bikini league were not good, nor was that league nearly as publicly known as the players we are talking about.The argument has limits - someone created a league where women played in bikinis - not sure the league is still on youtube but it didn't get a lot of views. But I suspect someone got it banned after a while. Or it is still there but dead.
No doubt there are men who are interested in the women's game for reasons purely unrelated to their gender. Whether that means it is ridiculous to suggest that the penchant for Japanese women just might be related to the fact that most of them are generally attractive is up for debate. Side note, many of the JNTW are in romantic/sexual relationships of varying degrees of seriousness but not sure how publicly that is known - the misconception that they are "available" could contribute.I have a friend who compulsively is uninterested in men's TT and I know he doesn't watch the women because of sexual attraction - he just finds their overall game more attractive and relatable. He is the kind of guy who would ask what chance Sato and Hashimoto have of making the Olympics or when Choi Hyojoo or Mima Ito are playing. He isn't Asian and doesn't date Asians. But he can find out when his favorite players are playing. He likes to play with short pips on backhand.
There is a reason why East Asian female celebrities go to great lengths to hide their romantic partners from the public eye. While there is no doubt that some men exist that like Korean KPop bands because of their music it would be ridiculous to suggest that their attractiveness isn't a big driving force broadly in why people go to their concerts, follow their careers, and form their online fan clubs.
Sexual attraction is always a potential factor in dealings between men and women. Now, a video on youtube designed to attract views is very different from a fandom committed to following the failures and successes of players over years. Don't want to delve into that too seriously, but you get the drift. So I get the Bobrow comparison but I think it has limitations compared to what we are discussing here.
Fair point - what I was getting at is that Bobrow knows what the internet eats up, and I doubt this forum is a wildly different group of people than the people consuming Bobrow videos
Yeah never meant to say that someone can't have a fandom for a celebrity for less than pure reasons. Singing the lyrics of Skyfall is one thing... if a website very visibly had years of commentary and tracking of Adele and her health, her future plans, her current prospects, gossip about her, and the like...does the word "obsession" become that unreasonable?That said, lots of men are fans of Hollywood stars, pop singers etc. Nothing wrong with that and that dimension is accepted. But it would be a disservice to a guy who actually knows the lyrics of the songs and likes the music to say that the core of his fandom for someone like Adele is because he finds her attractive. That's how I feel when I hear about this being the focus. Is Adele attractive, for some/many, sure. Might that influence how someone finds or follows her music, yes. But if I am singing the lyrics of Skyfall, is it because I find her attractive and want to watch her videos?
When it is described as an "obsession" with Adele, that is the unfortunate result.