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Okay. I will try and explain something that I feel is missing here.

I don't think NextLevel ever said he cares what level someone is if they are trying to give helpful feedback. I do think it helps to have some idea of the level of the player giving feedback though. Someone who is low level could give intelligent advice. But there is something much more going on. Before I go to that, I am going to give a story about myself.

One time a friend had two blades. They were both Hinoki blades but one was a Hinoki combo blade and one was all Hinoki. One was a Butterfly Jonyer H and one was a Cornilleau Hinotek All+. He asked me to try both and I did. At this point in time, I was a flat hitter and did not really know how to make brush contact for looping. I tried the blades and the Hinotek felt faster, like it had more control, and it just felt better overall to me. My friend and I--NextLevel, this was SmashFan--were with Dora Kurimay who is a semi-pro and from 12-19 she was on the Hungarian National Team, so she is a completely different class of player than me or my friend. He had her try the two blades as well. When she tried them, she said the Jonyer was a WAAAAAAYYYYY better blade. She said it was faster and had better control. She also said about the Hinotek that there was no good reason to use a blade that was so slow and had such bad control.

How did we have such different perspectives on the playing characteristics of the blades? Because I really sucked and was flat hitting, and she was using technique that I didn't have access to so I could not possibly feel what she felt.

Years later when my loop was starting to be decent, I hit with that racket with my memory of what it had felt like all those years ago and thought, "I don't want to try this racket." When I looped, my eyes opened wide. That racket felt amazing. Not just good. But, OMG......sooooo good. It still does not feel great to flat hit with it. But when you loop it is one of those mythical loop machines. I'm getting excited just thinking about it.

I am fortunate to know a lot of decently high level players. One thing I notice about them, there are certain things they see instantly that most people just can't see. So I value their opinion. By trade I spend my days analyzing people's functional and dysfunctional movement patterns, so there are a lot of things I can see that are hidden to most. But the movements involved in TT are complex. I remember, before I could loop there were many things about looping that were totally invisible to me. I just could not see them. I am comfortable that there are things guys who are better than me can still see that I just can't.

I am going to give an example.

I am hitting with Mark Croitoroo. He was 2400+ before a shoulder injury and is teaching himself to play lefty so I am a good training partner for him because I am steady and about the same level as he is lefty. Crazy how fast he is improving.

Anyway, a month ago he sees my BH and says: "hey, you have to keep your forearm pivot (elbow) stable. It's moving around and it is too close to your body." Boom. My BH is a decent amount better instantly. A week later I am trying to block his lefty FH. It is a little erratic since it is his left hand but it is fast and spinny. He loops, I try to block, he says: "hey, keep your pivot stable, just like with the loop. Same place." I didn't even realize I am pulling my elbow in towards me when I am bracing for the block. Boom. Block much better. Then he says, "soft. Relax your arm. Don't be scared of the loop." And I was. It was fast. And I was bracing like I was afraid of the ball. Hahaha. But, with very simple directions the block was instantly much better. A week later I ask him what is wrong with my BH return of serve. NextLevel, you remember you trying to help me work in it last time you were in NYC? He says he wants to look. One serve, he says: "hey, keep the pivot stable, just like the loop and the block." Instantly the return was much better. Very simple info. And again, it is such a habit I was unaware I was doing it. It will take work to replace the habit with the correction and keep the feeling in my body. But the fix was very simple and not many people would have seen it so fast. Unless they knew how to do it well in the first place.

Anyway, so much for in person feedback and the difference between someone of a decent level giving feedback vs someone who is much lower level than he realizes.

But, even that, IS REALLY FINE. I am definitely not a very good player. I have giant holes in my game. I know I have had a lot of high level players who have seen me enough tell me that there are some things that I do really well and other things that I just suck at. Anyone who wants a good laugh can watch some of my matches vs NextLevel and Der_Echte. Hahaha. I am okay with where I am. For 51 years old and starting at 44 I am pretty happy with some of the cool party tricks I can perform. I play for fun. Hopefully we all do to some extent.

So where am I going with this? Well, it is not that Archo gives "helpful" or not so helpful tips on playing. When he first started posting, there were many posts where he said things like: "back when I was as bad as you...." while tearing apart the technique of someone who was MUCH higher level than he is. His "informative" comments were definitely not something that any high level player would have given. And he was presenting them as though he would soon be on the CNT and that the only correct technique was CNT technique.

In one memorable post he even said something like: "can't you tell my level from the information I am posting?" He was absolutely trying to present that he was VERY high level and knew what he was talking about. But the truth was, I could tell his level because it was plain that what he was presenting was soooooo off.

The information without him trying to present that he knew what he was talking about would have been fine. We would have been able to just ignore the stuff. But that was not how it was presented. Archo was trying to assert that he was a high level player, an authority.

After it was clear and clearly demonstrated what his basic level was--and again, there is nothing wrong with that basic level, we all started out there--there were a few times where someone posted a pretty decent video of them looping, in good faith where the poster was a good level, their form was pretty solid, and there level was a decent amateur level, and Archo posted something like, "for guys at our level," as though he could make 50-60 really nice, spinny loops in a row without missing.

The good news was that Archo wasn't saying "back when I sucked like you do;" instead he was saying, "we are at the same level and in the same boat;" but the person was still way higher level than many posters on the forum including Archo.

These days the stuff that is off that he posts is different. It doesn't have to do with crazy tips on tactics and technique that are unreasonable. Often they are about things he did or tried to do.

Like how NextLevel said, he hears about whip mechanics and all of a sudden he is doing it, when it is not so easy to develop that skill. He hears people talk about corkscrew loops, hook loops, fades, and all of a sudden he is posting about doing them vs this specific kind of serve. For some of the wild claims that he has made, video footage would settle what actually happened.

However, as far as I am concerned, it is great if he is doing these things he claims. If he is not, it is not such a big deal. But he would be helped if he knew when he wasn't doing what he thought he was doing. When someone who flat hits thinks they are looping, it would really help their ability to improve to know they are doing something other than looping.

I think Archo is a very smart kid who loves the underlying theories for things like TT and/or race car driving. I also think he loves playing TT. And TT is a very frustrating sport to try and learn without the help of people who are MUCH better than you are.

But I think, sometimes he mistakes thinking for doing. And I think it would be really hard to get better when surrounded only by people your own level or lower. So, I am actually sympathetic to the limitations of Archo's situation. I think it is great that he wants to try and improve. And that he is so persistent at trying.

But I think, where Archo goes wrong has to do with a lack of self awareness. And it would probably be hard to judge what your own level was if you never played against someone decently higher level. So I have seen plenty of people mistake their own level or someone else's. And then get on the table and realize, "woe, when I was watching I thought I was better than him, but why can't I get the ball on the table against him?"

There are lots of people who watch NextLevel and do not realize just how good he is or how much pace and spin is on his balls. His shots are very high quality and for some, that is hard to see on video or even in person. Then you feel the ball from one of his shots hit your racket, it feels like a golf ball it's so heavy and you go: "oh, it is really heavy!"

Anyway, I have had a realization about all this. I think some of what is going on is like one of those hypochondriacs who read the symptoms of different maladies and all of a sudden they think they have all the conditions they just read about. So maybe that and a persistent lack of understanding of his actual level are getting in his way.

But there is little doubt in my mind that he is improving and he is legitimately trying to figure out ways of improving without the help of higher level players. So I would have to be supportive of that part of who Archo is.

As far as this most recent thing, in retrospect, I am comfortable with the idea that, perhaps Archo left information out for a different reason than I first thought.

That foible in the serve video of William Henzel that SchemeSC posted to show something that happened in his punch serve practice, may have happened to Archo; or something like it. And perhaps the reason Archo didn't pose his question, something like: "Hey, that happens to me every so often. Why does that happen?" could be because he did not want people to make fun of him--in spite of the fact that SchemeSC was not afraid of being made fun of and didn't really think anyone would make fun of William Henzel either.

And when Archo heard that part of why it happens could be good bat speed, he realized, "oh, that's a relief! It may not just be because I am not good." And so he posted his second comment after hiding that he had done it in his first comment.

Which is part of why I just said "Sorry" to Archo without bothering to drag the whole thing out.

I don't want to discourage the guy from participating in the forum and continuing to learn and play and improve. So, I felt just leaving it at that would hopefully be enough.
But perhaps the longer explanation will be useful.

Peace Out!

Happy New Year


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Carl, even though i am moving to California, I might be able to make it to NYC sometime. Ya never know. I would like to run into a few of Ur friends and thank them. I promise not to knock them over when I run into them.

The NYC Goon Squad will suffer greatly without your presence='(... we lost our anchorman for setting up traps fer Chicken n Beer Bets. Every single adventure was a pleasure, my friend!

I am 100% with PPH on this one. And when you come to NYC for TT adventures, UpSideDownGranMaMa will have a place for you to crash. [emoji2]


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Thanks, Carl, for the post on archo. I appreciate your post in part because the detail reminds us of some of the things that people here who didn't read archo on other threads or even myself who likes to just forget some things may not remember when we bring up the label "dishonest". I think maybe Shuki and laistrogian may have some last words (which they fully deserve as well before we close out this saga and move on). And if they don't, that is fine too.

EDIT: Oh, and I cannot forget ttmonster, who was actually a subject of some of archo's deeper analysis of strokes. People who haven't experienced this nonsense should be thankful they do not know what it is like.
 
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I am 100% with PPH on this one. And when you come to NYC for TT adventures, UpSideDownGranMaMa will have a place for you to crash. [emoji2]


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Now if he can drag (kidnap) ttmonster to come with him...
 
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Now if he can drag (kidnap) ttmonster to come with him...

Now that would be one heck of a goon squad adventure.


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Anyway, I have had a realization about all this. I think some of what is going on is like one of those hypochondriacs who read the symptoms of different maladies and all of a sudden they think they have all the conditions they just read about. So maybe that and a persistent lack of understanding of his actual level are getting in his way.

Carl, that was a great posting...but the quoted paragraph made me literally laugh out loud! It made me remember a conversation I had with my personal family physician one time about his medical school experiences. He told how he (and some others) battled the "syndrome" of suddenly recognizing the symptoms of some rare disease being studied as his (or their) own!

Your insight is apparently quite true to human nature and might be spot on in understanding the phenomenon of the Arch posts!
 
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I don't want to discourage the guy from participating in the forum and continuing to learn and play and improve. So, I felt just leaving it at that would hopefully be enough.
But perhaps the longer explanation will be useful.

Peace Out!

Happy New Year


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Carl, i really like many of you guys and their posts, but even though i also had my moments with Arch's posts and i agree on nearly every point you've made, i would like to bring up something else.

It's totally unnecessary to bully and mobb people.

See, there is a reason why people called you guys the Goon squad, or NYC Mafia and other names.
Pointing out when someone is wrong is totally fine, but what really happens a lot is, when someone posts something that isn't conform with you or one of your friends' opinion, then many times a real shitstorm of posts breaks lose and many are carrying the Stars&Stripes flag. Is this really necessary?

I remember when someone posted something about MH wearing a cap when practicing, and many posters started picking on the guy, which is already a while ago.
But just a couple of pages back everyone was jumpin' on Boogar, 'cause he defended a vietnamese youtube vid. Some of you cats feel motivated to jump in out of nowhere. But what has really blown it for me was a post by a kid with a japanese sounding name. I guess you know by now who i mean.

Next time you visit the states with your new profound playing abilities, lets see how you do against us
this statement just cements a Mobbing Image, but not in a positive way IMHO. I mean, where does this guy get his blown-up ego from?


Statements like these are challenging me to just do as wished and fly cross the pond to teach dude a lesson or two.
BTW: One question, maybe you can enlighten me, but what is generally considered as US-tabletennis, since I can't see any native americans teaching a lot of tabletennis, what i do see is tabletennis taught by european descendants, or chinese descendants, sometimes also other asian descendants and even Nigerian partly developed by australian (which then would again be european descendants, since i can't see any australian aboriginal TT-guys in here)

Why am i writing this? I see guys like Yecats, or Vrael and a few others more, who also know how to hold a racket and use it, that don't seem to find it necessary to constantly prove themselves, feed their egos and bully others.

Just to make my point clear:
one contrary comment is totally okay, maybe even two or three, but do we have to form a mob to make others look stupid? I don't think so.

So now...
Let the games begin and
MAY A NEW SHITSTORM BREAK LOSE!
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Please don't hold yourself back.
I've been speaking up against bullies since my school days, so i think i should be able to deal with this.
 
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Another thing to consider when arch tries to put some difficult new technique into his game is that he IS playing the same players all the time that are at a lower level. He can comfortably deal with their ball and understands how it's going to come. So he doesn't need to focus on a lot of other aspects like reading the spin since he's used to it.

If you are hitting with someone feeding to you, working on whip mechanics, you'll get the feeling that it's starting to work. You'll feel yourself doing the strokes right a good bit since you don't need to focus on all the other aspects of your stroke. It may be hard for us to believe that he executed a few corkspin loops because we play at clubs where doing our regular strokes can be difficult, let alone a new one.
 
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p.s. anyone have tips on removing premade bat sponge? got a new mini-bat and can't get the junk off without a belt sander :/

Tip 1: Don't do it.
Tip 2: If you have to do it, set aside 2 hours of your life.
Tip 3: Use acetone and lighter fluid carefully to see which solvent affects the glue.
Tip 4: Get to work!
 
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Thanks Suga, you made some really good points there. I agree that often, certain members of TTD seem to abuse their "power" and definitely team up against individuals on here when they want to. There is a collective group who go against individuals when they "slip up", or don't 100% conform with what the "group of superior TT knowledge and expertise" think. I have been victim of this in the past and I have seen it happen a few times here and there.

Still, overall this forum is great and I get on with pretty much everyone on here. I'm just trying to do my bit to help Archo, cause I still think he often gets a bit more hate than he deserves! :) Granted, from what Carl said, Archo has slipped up a bit in the past. But other than damaging a few ego's, he has caused no real harm...
 
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The NYC Goon Squad will suffer greatly without your presence='(... we lost our anchorman for setting up traps fer Chicken n Beer Bets. Every single adventure was a pleasure, my friend!
It is not the end, I could always be back on business travel with my new job... or if there are enough blade or rubber sales lined up I could find a way to get to NYC on a 3 day weekend.

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Now that would be one heck of a goon squad adventure.


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I think tt monster would have plenty of funds for a NYC adventure if I could get him freed up from work.

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I wish , I really wish , cost of living in the south bay area kills any plans of saving that you might have ...but we can definitely do a long weekend adventure, no doubt !
I think tt monster would have plenty of funds for a NYC adventure if I could get him freed up from work.

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Suga, there is no doubt that things go overboard, and some of it leaves a bad taste in the mouth and that is one of the reason there are a lot of times when I write a post and then decide not to engage , and there is no excuse for mobbing ... in fact Shuki's post did make me cringe a little but I gave him the benefit of doubt of humor gone wrong knowing that he and Boogar seems to connect/share jokes most of the time , I thought it was more of a mocking you see before a boxing match than what you perceived it as ... with Archo things are a little different , in fact he sent me an long PM asking me why did I say "somebody talk to me" ... and that it was ruse to get likes and what not and my answer was "I called it like I saw it" .... and I will keep seeing Archo in the same light till I see a video of Archo in actual table tennis gear playing with people in an actual ping pong club. The reason Archo gets mobbed, I don't exactly remember the exact circumstances of what happened with Yecats , is because he really asks for it pretty much 90% of the time he opens his mouth , and even when somebody says clearly or indicates that he / they are ignoring him , he keeps on badgering to get a response ...
 
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What you say is certainly true

I was trying to give him a compliment so not all his feedback would be negative. Just trying to boost his self-esteem in a time when it may feel like the majority of people were trying to bring him down.

Shuki, my self esteem doesn't need a boost. People trying to bring you down simply means that they're trying to bring you down to their level. There is no reason at all to impart a burden on your fellow man's shoulders: for his back is already at it's limit.

Besides, all my life I've got nothing but negative feedback. You'd think I'd have grown thick skin by now, wouldn't you.
I don't even disagree with most of the feedback, necessarily. I've never understood why anyone with any sense in their head would say anything good about me. Even then, it's no reason not to accept yourself. If you won't, who will?


I also do not think that most people here are trying to bring me down. This place is surprisingly civil, and the negative feedback, although negative, is still quite constructive. There was a time when I would take it personally and get insulted, but why get upset over people trying to help you? Even if the truth can be kind of ugly.

There are people out there who will point out the flaws of other people so they don't feel so bad about their own, but they never make any sense.




After arch replied with this when I was trying to defend him, I decided poking jabs didn't hurt his feelings and would be all in good fun. Since being nice got me a long winded response
 
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Okay. I will try and explain something that I feel is missing here.


So where am I going with this? Well, it is not that Archo gives "helpful" or not so helpful tips on playing. When he first started posting, there were many posts where he said things like: "back when I was as bad as you...." while tearing apart the technique of someone who was MUCH higher level than he is. His "informative" comments were definitely not something that any high level player would have given. And he was presenting them as though he would soon be on the CNT and that the only correct technique was CNT technique.

In one memorable post he even said something like: "can't you tell my level from the information I am posting?" He was absolutely trying to present that he was VERY high level and knew what he was talking about. But the truth was, I could tell his level because it was plain that what he was presenting was soooooo off.



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Thanks for the post. I think since I am a fairly new user I thought you guys were responding negatively to him for no particular reason, seeing as his recent stuff is not all that bad. It seems I wasn't aware of his "dark past".
Still, I think he has changed for the better and we shouldn't be too quick to judge his new posts.
 
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Thanks Suga, you made some really good points there. I agree that often, certain members of TTD seem to abuse their "power" and definitely team up against individuals on here when they want to. There is a collective group who go against individuals when they "slip up", or don't 100% conform with what the "group of superior TT knowledge and expertise" think. I have been victim of this in the past and I have seen it happen a few times here and there.

Still, overall this forum is great and I get on with pretty much everyone on here. I'm just trying to do my bit to help Archo, cause I still think he often gets a bit more hate than he deserves! :) Granted, from what Carl said, Archo has slipped up a bit in the past. But other than damaging a few ego's, he has caused no real harm...

Maybe he didn't cause any real harm because some of the egos he supposedly damaged took it upon themselves to stop him before he damaged someone's table tennis? I think this is what I meant when I said that you think I am a petty person. No, he didn't just hurt some egos, if he ever developed any credibility, some people who have taken him seriously until they knew better. The effort that Carl made to get him to post video was significant. You can now trivialize it after it was successful and say Archo only hurt a few egos, but eloquent trolls who don't post their own level of play are often trying to make far better players than themselves look like beginners.

I know that some people were fans of pnatchwey, who was by his and some accounts a wealthy brilliant controls engineer, and who are still mad that the Mob/Mafia/Goon Squad (which has now been co-opted by SugaD to give it a meaning that it never had, but that is another story) or me and my arguments with him drove him away or led to his getting banned, this despite pnatchwey being banned from two other forums before he came here. And pnatchwey had a way of writing about table tennis physics as if he knew what he was talking about, and he probably did, the problem being that he was not a good table tennis player so that limited how seriously he applied physics to table tennis. He once made a comment that nothing about a stroke matters other than what happens when the ball contacts the racket. I tried applying that idea as it was naively stated for a couple of months and it hurt my concept of the importance of backswing and followthrough. But at this time, I was already a higher level player than pnatchwey and should have and would have known better had I actually seen him play.

There is the psychology of group behavior that says that people who tend to line up on the same/opposite side of an issue tend to start lining up on the same/opposite side of many issues. And the issue that they originally lined up on the same/opposite side of could be completely trivial and meaningless. Or it could be something that is correlated with something else that leads to all kinds of things down they line that a statistical model could predict, but a generally unaware person might not.

The issue that drives your perception is the public visibility of the likes button. When a post gets "likes", people think it is ganging up. I think the psychological phenomenon I described above combined with the likes button is what gives the mob perception. Shuki often described it. Should we now call this power group the Goon Squad in honor of SugaD, since I thought the Goon Squad was supposed to be about the EJs or people who were deceived by marketing into buying Ma Long's private stash of H3 National rubbers that magically showed up on tabao?

In any case, I am tired of personal issues. I think that I was bullied a lot too as a child but I want to focus on table tennis. And I will bully anyone who wants to post about table tennis without giving some evidence of their level. And I will bully the people who support such people, even if I am married to them. And I will bully...

Why am I such a bully?????
 
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Suga, there is no doubt that things go overboard, and some of it leaves a bad taste in the mouth and that is one of the reason there are a lot of times when I write a post and then decide not to engage , and there is no excuse for mobbing ... in fact Shuki's post did make me cringe a little but I gave him the benefit of doubt of humor gone wrong knowing that he and Boogar seems to connect/share jokes most of the time , I thought it was more of a mocking you see before a boxing match than what you perceived it as ... with Archo things are a little different , in fact he sent me an long PM asking me why did I say "somebody talk to me" ... and that it was ruse to get likes and what not and my answer was "I called it like I saw it" .... and I will keep seeing Archo in the same light till I see a video of Archo in actual table tennis gear playing with people in an actual ping pong club. The reason Archo gets mobbed, I don't exactly remember the exact circumstances of what happened with Yecats , is because he really asks for it pretty much 90% of the time he opens his mouth

Good point, ttmonster [as usual] :)
I can totally agree on this and might have left that out of sight. But your next sentence's was really crackin' me up
and even when somebody says clearly or indicates that he / they are ignoring him , he keeps on badgering to get a response ...

I totally understand from first hand experience what you mean,
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but then again, especially in situations that DTopSpirit has been speaking of,
one statement should actually be enough to keep him in check, not ten or twenty.

In fact one friend of mine has the A-coaching license in germany [which ist the highest license], has the habit to mostly talk in subjunktive form by using words like: maybe this could help you.
So one time i've asked him, why he always tends to do that, and he answered: "because everyone is different, and there is always the possibility that someone has a different way to feel what's going on, so i never know, if what i said is also the same that is understood."

I really had to think about that.

Another phrase comes to my mind:
to be old and wise, you first must be young and dumb.

From what i know, many of us are old cats, we should be able to do better than that.

But i totally get, that sometimes it's also really hard to resist...
 
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Holy crap! This is quite a lot more discussion than I expected.

@SchemeSC

I posted the popcorn picture because I've seen these "in defense of archo" posts before, and I think they're silly. I know how people are going to reply, and I know how the person who made the post is going to reply. It's just amusing, because they're defending me more than I am myself. I think they are a little naive too.

I think it's okay that NL has me ignored and doesn't want to "find the positive in what I post" or whatever. We all have 24 hours in our day and it's completely okay if he doesn't want to use any of that time on me. He could use it for something more important to him, and I would not get insulted.

Everything else has already been explained, and I mostly agree. I'm not gonna comment on anything.

@ttmonster

You left out the important parts about the PM you just made public and distorted for your own benefit. But okay, I can forget it.
 
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