Stiga Allround Evo (or some other Allround blade) with Sriver G3 or some other Euro rubber from the just past SG era will do good.. Also older offensive rubbers from the SG era would be fine. If control is what you seek
I personally LOVE the Stiga Allround Evolution blade. And When Der_Echte tried mine, it got him to go out and get one for himself. Then he played Dr Frankenstein with it and added 35 grams of weight to the handle. But, that is Der_Echte! Anyway, the Allround Evolution is really a fantastic blade at an excellent price: it is only about $40.00 (USD). I also agree with the rubbers Anders is recommending. They would be a really good place to start.
To be fair, I don't always use the same rubber on both sides - the hardest rubber I have used on both sides since breaking 1500 is Big Dipper 38 degrees - I have used Tenergy 05 on both sides but that is not special or unique per se in modern TT though I know many people who go softer. I sometimes do think that MX-S is too hard for my backhand and I am going to give other rubbers a look after the year is over - MX-S has addictive spin though. But I might try Rakza X and Rakza X soft since my new idol M Karlsson looked excellent using Rakza X.
To be fair (I figured I might as well start with the same phrase as you

), your advice is always some of the best when it comes to equipment, and it is always based on the specific person you are giving advice to. I actually wasn't saying you love hard rubbers. I was saying your backhand is a monster!

Not many people have that much impact on the backhand side and that makes it so you can use a rubber that is as hard on the BH as on the FH. But, most of us would probably better with a slightly softer BH rubber.
I do have MX-P on my BH. I started getting the idea that I might be able to have a rubber that is as hard for BH as FH. Originally, my friend Edmund--who usually uses the same rubber for FH and BH and also has a really strong BH--gave me the idea. And I am pretty used to MX-P and it is working for me. But I think I would be better with FX-P or EL-P on my BH. Even though this is working for me. The MX-P may be a bit too hard for my BH. Whereas, on my FH, I can really get some extra gears with MX-P. Even though I got so used to MX-P for BH that it is working for me, I think I may get the extra gears with a slightly softer rubber on that side. But, I will change when I change my rubbers next.
