This argument really is kind of useless to the OP. Sounds like you guys are having fun though.
In 2012 I was this OP. 43 years old, started playing TT in a town with a community center club one night a week, nearest proper club 2.5 hours drive away. No coaching. The good players in Comm Ctr were like 1400, best player in the county 1800. Table Tennis Poverty Zone is how NL called it.
Nonetheless I became obsessed with TT. Bought robot, put table and floor and AC in my garage, trained with local partners, web coach, went to camps, drove to club for coaching and to play different people, went to fucking Europe to camps for God's sake. Like, I really made a serious effort. I don't think the OP will go that far as I did, which is smart, imo. Here is what I learned.
You will never succeed at being a really good TT player in the environment you have. Half the things you practice will actually make you play worse. You will develop bad habits and to try to un-learn them will take long and hard work and most likely still fail.
If you just want to play pingpong and get to a decent hobby level like 1400 usatt, you can totally do that. At ~1400 you can play long rallies, make friends, get some exercise and have a good time. But in absolute terms that still really is a low level, and it may get boring after a while. Or if you are someone who gets most of your enjoyment from the feeling of developing skills, getting better, hitting a plateau can be very frustrating. You know yourself, the forum cannot advise on how you will react. But it is extremely likely that you hit a plateau somewhere between 1200 - 1600 and that's it.
Equipment is not very important. I would say only two things.
1. Get a blade that is medium speed-wise. Can be carbon or all-wood, but not super slow like Sweden classic, and not crazy fast like FZD SALC, garaydia ZLC. Anything between a Korbel and a Viscaria, which is like 1000s of blades, is totally okay, you will adapt. More important than picking the perfect one, is to NOT CHANGE IT once you pick. Changing blades sets you back a lot every time.
2. For rubbers similar advice. Get something that makes and reacts to spin, but not something crazy. I started with flextra and then sriver, because of dumb, decades-old advice. It will not teach you to play proper strokes. You won't learn anything useful. Because TT is all about making and dealing with spin, and those rubbers don't cut it with the new ball. Rozena fine, rakza fine, fastarc, rasanter, bluefire, like any $30 - $40 eurojap rubber with 42 - 48 degree sponge and grippy top is totally fine. Again 100s of perfectly fine choices. Don't get 53 degree sponge, no hurricane, no hybrids. That sorts your equipment.
What you really need is some coaching. It can be just a little to start, but so helpful to get it early. Do a weekend camp maybe, or go get two hours one-on-one at the faraway club once a month, if they have a coach. If there are better players in your town, invite them to your basement TT man cave and learn to feed multi ball for them, and block for them. Then you will have both some new friends, and some training partners. Practice serves as much as you can or want. But be careful using the robot too much. I owned four or five different robots, including the very good ones. They all suck if you use them too much. They are great for fitness, and you can work on your technique when you don't know how to do a shot at all. But they train you to not read the ball off an opponent's body and paddle. Which is pretty much the single most important skill in table tennis. So to use the robot 1/3 or 1/4 of your TT is okay. If you get close to half your table time being robot training you are actually making yourself worse at playing real games.