unfortunately its more complicated than that.
From the Russian PoV , Ukraine was supposed to be a buffer state (already a big loss from USSR days); not one hosting military bases to the benefit of hostile states which it had already started to become. They could not tolerate that there would be all kind of last generation missiles and weaponry pointed at them from Ukrainian territory and US fleet in Sebastopol in 5-10 years. It was a casus belli. Not to mention all the strategic resources that could be controlled in case of a successful campaign.
Ukraine is a sacrificial pawn in a big game of chess. The US/CIA fomented a coup in Ukraine, financed your current govt, raised the stakes and provoked Putin into the war. From the Russian PoV they are defending themselves just like the US is expected to defend itself if Russia had fomented a coup in Mexico.
Not saying Putin is a saint or a good guy. But he is acting rationally and I believe he is one who genuinely believes he is acting in his country own interest while it is rather obvious the Zelensky clique is just trying to cash in as many billions of USD as they can before the war is over (hence the need to make it last till the last Ukrainian standing) and they can all retire in places such like Monaco, Italy, Bahamas etc where they already have many 8-9 digits usd properties.
Not saying that its a "right" thing that smaller countries destiny is to be bullied or to be slaves of the bigger country. Its just the way the world has been for thousands of years. Cards are not being dealt equally.
What happened happened. So now what do belligerants want ? if both sides can't agree to an agreement that could be expected to last decades and not a couple years, then more grief.
As a EU citizen i don't support the official policy of supporting financially and militarily Ukraine, i believe it may lead to a more generalized conflict. I don't want my children to fight for your country. I don't believe it is our war. I believe our politicians didn't act for your true interests but for their own interest ie. virtue signaling (to win votes) + corruption taking a cut with money flowing back from Ukraine to their pockets and they don't care at all about young Ukrainian dying + making a power grab. I believe this war could have never happened and if we could stop this insanity and be all friends again, we would be a prosperous continent.
Instead Europe is falling into social and economic chaos, and now war, and from where i live in Asia, whereas 35 years ago i felt Asia was the 3rd world compared to Europe; now i feel exactly the opposite...and its becoming worse every year at an accelerating pace.
I urge you: please do not spread the brazen lies you likely encountered in Russian propaganda.
Let me try to answer using figures and my own perspective.
1. Before Russia’s attack in 2014, Ukraine had no intention of hosting military bases for NATO or other Western nations. Prior to the Russian aggression, the majority of the Ukrainian population did not view Russia as a threat at all. Here is a link to an article with poll results:
https://www.rbc.ua/rus/news/podderzhka-vstupleniya-ukrainy-nato-es-vyrosla-1562766174.html. Again, I am speaking based on my own experience and that of the people around me. Before the 2014 attack on Ukraine, we were opposed to NATO; afterwards, we were entirely in favor of joining. Furthermore, Ukraine had signed a treaty with Russia allowing the Russian navy to remain in Crimea until 2042!!!! (
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kharkiv_Pact). It only terminated that agreement after the attack on and occupation of Crimea.
2. There was no coup in Ukraine. None whatsoever. Our parliament remained exactly as it was. By law, the president is required to sign bills passed by parliament. Yanukovych refused to sign, and then he was actually spirited away to Russia by the Russian military. Parliament passed a resolution declaring that the president had effectively abandoned his post and scheduled new elections. Where is the coup in that? Russia certainly wanted to stage a coup in Ukraine, but it failed to do so.
3. Zelenskyy is by no means a "good boy." However, regarding the claims about $8–9 million worth of overseas real estate—I find that highly unlikely. Journalists in Ukraine keep a very close watch on all of Zelenskyy’s associates, and I do not believe such transactions would have gone unnoticed by them. And the most interesting thing is that if Zelensky were removed, the opposition is actually even more aggressively anti-Russian and believes that negotiations are completely unfeasible.
4. What would happen if Europe stopped financial aid to Ukraine? I cannot predict it, but I can speculate. Ultimately, Ukraine would lose within a few years. More than a million additional people would perish in Russian concentration camps. There would be around 20 million refugees flooding into Europe. Russian troops—both mobilized forces and battle-hardened veterans—would be stationed along the borders of the Baltic states, Poland, Hungary, Slovakia, and Romania. Within three to four years, there would be a subsequent attack on the Baltic states or on Hungary and Slovakia, and a full-scale World War III involving nuclear strikes would begin.