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Ok, let's take it from your last post, i think it is about that my unstable grip, or maybe because the placing of my grip is not as the coach or many players are using, so it is like they all want me to use same grip as theirs so i can gain full control on my blade, but is that true that if i use or duplicate their grips then i will be in a control with my blade?
So if i will suffer with my grip not matching theirs, should i stop training then until i solve this issue first?
I don't want to feel that i am left behind so so far from those players just because of my wrong grip, also i was playing with this grip for long time and i managed to get good playing style with it even if is wrong, and i may change this grip but this will take me another long months or even a year or 2 until i am fully adjusted to a new grip as theirs, then i will be wasted a lot of money on the coach trying to teach me the correct grip before he starting to teach me the game, i just barely got back to the game and from beginning many wants me to be good and improve in no time, and i wasn't really thinking about improving my skills or being a good player just yet, but sounds people care about me more than myself.
Anyway, i feel if the coach and some players keep commenting about my grip i may give up playing tennis as they will just focus on teaching even in front many others which will embarrassing me in front of others even beginners with correct grip, and the coach [he is new person i met him weeks ago and he wanted me to pay him to teach me as he needed money] may help but maybe he will do that in the slow way and have more income for him, i prefer to waste or spend a lot of money and enjoy over than spending for coaching and i feel forced to listen and follow instructions and then i don't get enjoy at all until several months when my skills will improve then i get enjoy again, but i may give up and my situations will stop me playing TT before i become better, so i really don't know what i can do about my grip so i don't go uder long process with him or others to teach me.
So if i will suffer with my grip not matching theirs, should i stop training then until i solve this issue first?
I don't want to feel that i am left behind so so far from those players just because of my wrong grip, also i was playing with this grip for long time and i managed to get good playing style with it even if is wrong, and i may change this grip but this will take me another long months or even a year or 2 until i am fully adjusted to a new grip as theirs, then i will be wasted a lot of money on the coach trying to teach me the correct grip before he starting to teach me the game, i just barely got back to the game and from beginning many wants me to be good and improve in no time, and i wasn't really thinking about improving my skills or being a good player just yet, but sounds people care about me more than myself.
Anyway, i feel if the coach and some players keep commenting about my grip i may give up playing tennis as they will just focus on teaching even in front many others which will embarrassing me in front of others even beginners with correct grip, and the coach [he is new person i met him weeks ago and he wanted me to pay him to teach me as he needed money] may help but maybe he will do that in the slow way and have more income for him, i prefer to waste or spend a lot of money and enjoy over than spending for coaching and i feel forced to listen and follow instructions and then i don't get enjoy at all until several months when my skills will improve then i get enjoy again, but i may give up and my situations will stop me playing TT before i become better, so i really don't know what i can do about my grip so i don't go uder long process with him or others to teach me.