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Missing the point a little but a very good point none the less, i must admit i talk to myself in matches a bit i try to do it quietly but it helps me process my thoughts and plan how i want to play.With all this talk about what annoys us, I'd like to take out a little gem by Ross Bentley in his Ultimate Speed Secrets book. It's for race car drivers, but I'm sure you can see the relevance to much of any sport.
"Many drivers become too focused on what their competitors are doing. They're constantly looking at what the competition is doing to their cars, at how they're driving a particular corner and watching the mirrors to keep them behind.
Instead, if they would put that much focus and concentration on their own car and driving; they would be so far ahead they would never have to worry about the competition.
Don't worry about the competition. If you're getting 100 percent out of yourself, there is not much else you can do about the competition anyway. If you don't win, there is not much you can do other than improve your car's performance level or work at raising your own 100 percent. After all, your 100 percent today may be only 90 percent six months from now, because your technique has improved. And you can always improve."
I think there's a good reason why as the level gets higher, people are generally not that much bothered by many of the things said here.
I dont mind Cho-ing or anything else BUT i do hate it when people serve out of their hand, i need a lot of mental preperation in sports and am too easily stressed out so i need to watch for the contact but if they serve out of their hand it always takes me by surprise, and it gets all the way into leauge matches. I've asked people to serve properly before in a match it doesnt go down well and after the third time and they still cant do it i give up and let them do it.
although if people ask or notice me talking to myself i will do it more quietly so to try not to bother them as at the end of the day distraction is unfair