Of course you know where I am going with this - you started introducing delusion and I am point out that you should stop trying to accuse people who disagree with you of being delusional and deal with the facts.
I am not sure how you are measuring this. Men and women don't compete with each other on a regular basis and in cases where they do, while men and women of similar rating levels tend to be equivalent, men still dominate the top of the heirarchy as they do in other sports. How many women have ever been over 2700 in the history of USATT ratings? How many men? Maybe in Germany or China, they can have similar ratings measurements. Ratings central hasn't been updated in a while unfortunately, but if you trust the data there, the gap is ridiculous.
If we want to point at single matches as evidence, that is the alternative. But single matches are not comprehensive statistical data. And I pointed out that one of the top women in the world, who you even ranked higher than I did, could not beat a lower national team member of Germany (many good male players couldn't either). She also lost to a player outside the top 100 in this year's NA Teams, though she has beaten very good players at Westchester Table Tennis Open all year long.
Then someone pointed out that a former CNT B player got beaten by a former junior Chinese national female player in one match, and then you used that data to call people who think that women are not competitive with men (nebulously defined by yourself) "delusional". One match? If you had said "women seem to be more competitive with men in table tennis than in other sports", then of course, even if someone has issue with that statement, it is more interesting worth discussing. One can then argue whether the data actually reflects that.
Unfortunately, Ratings Central is no long updated. But if we look at USATT ratings, we don't get quite the measure of competitiveness you get if we look at it purely on a statistical basis. But maybe you have some data that I am not privy to. Feel free to share.