Yeah, TT is a real tough sport dude,, i got myself to around 40 in England,, i have no idea what level that is in the US but im guessing its pretty high if the 12 year old is 2200.. p.s. i dont want to be loosing to no 12 year old until he reaches atleast 14
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So yeah,,, for me to get to that level literally required me to practice almost every day and so much losses went into it, it was unreal! Im not the most talented player out there so for me it required hard work and more tactical play. But its possible its all about the time you have and how much you want it... Just take one step at a time and enjoy yourself.... (Especially when your at a tournament)
I think my biggest way of improving was when i started writing a diary. I put in the diary when i practised, my wins and losses and how i won... I wrote down the areas that let me down in a match.... the next day i would practice on this weakness so it was better next time..
For instance,, your objective for this month could be to be able to do 50 short backspin serves to the forehand without misses, going long or going to short. Its tough but you feel good if you achieve it. All the small goals will collect up.
You can do goals with rankings... but rankings aint the most realistic statistic, its what you do away from the tournaments that will count for now.
How long have you been playing?