Thanks for taking the time to watch the games Brs, appreciate it.
After watching back the matches and reading your comments I've realised I block far more than I thought it did. Playing against this guy makes a bit more sense because I feel he just plays at a faster pace than I'm used to, so perhaps I don't feel like I have the time to complete proper strokes. Which is also a reason why my tactics didn't seem as apparent because I felt rushed in all the points.
I will definitely take the time to learn a lower dead serve as I don't have one that I can do yet. Also your point about the serves overall goal is to not be attacked/ apply pressure rather than just to make it as spinny as possible is something I'll have to remember.
Below video is a practice match I played vs someone around my level which probably shows a bit more how I prefer to play. But again, I realised I'm blocking more than I had thought in match situations. (would prefer to learn to leverage my longer arms and get more deadly full strokes)
Any observations or advice for this match is appreciated.
Yes, It's good to see you playing where you are the stronger one. So you started this game pushing back all his long serves and getting set to defend. Beginning with the point at 1:32 it's like you flipped a switch and realized you weren't still playing the first guy. From then on you were much more active in the rallies. So I can understand that's how you want to play, looping from both sides. And the mid-distance you like to go to supports that perfectly. You just can't block from back there.
I actually think the point at 1:32 was your best of the game, despite you losing the point. It visibly causes you some mental anguish to miss shots and lose points. This is natural, but it's hurting your development. These are practice matches, the point is not so much to win as to practice. So you really need to shift that mental pain to playing passively instead of winning or losing points. Try recording yourself at least a little every time you play. Watch it back and only judge yourself on whether you were active or passive at the right times. Don't judge the technique or results at all. You won't have to watch too much video before you start feeling it real time in games too.
It's not always bad to be passive or defend. If you are in trouble off the serve and receive then mindlessly attacking with no chance won't get you anywhere either. But this mismatch between how you think you want to play and how you actually default to playing is holding you back, and it could be fairly easy to resolve it.
Two coach sayings that helped me in this respect:
Brian Pace "Nobody cares how many practice matches you win."
NextLevel "Whether a shot lands on the table is not the most important thing." (paraphrasing NL, but he is here and can refine)