The question we really have to ask is, I assume, that just about everyone in this thread is male, would you want a gf who was so good at table tennis that she could beat you? haha
when I was like 16, and on a trip to China, I almost lost to a girl who was like 12.... feels bad man.... haha
I think I wouldn't mind if the girl was like either a little worse than me, so that we always had close games, or as good as me, but if she beat me more than I beat her, that would kind of suck for my ego... haha